January brings forth a fresh start, a resurgance of energy to step into each day with your best foot forward, feeling renewed and ready to stake claim to all that is before you. Lean into this spirit and get ready for the action! 2025 is a 9 year and we’re ready to bring it home and find completion in so many ways in order to prepare for the new cycle just ahead. Get ready, because it’s about to get real—we’re ready!
RECLAIMING OUR THRONE:
STEPPING INTO OUR POWER IN 2025
WORDS OF WISDOM FROM OUR
Founding Mother, Divinely Sah’RAh
As we enter this new year, let us remember that each of us is born with a throne of our own — not one made of jewels or gold, but one forged through the strength of our souls, the wisdom of our ancestors, and the infinite energy that flows through all beings. Men and women alike, we are the sacred embodiment of this royal birthright.
The throne we occupy is not about external dominance but the quiet sovereignty we each hold within. It is a throne made of the earth beneath our feet, the wisdom passed down through generations, and the boundless potential we carry forward into the world. We are the ancestors we seek, carrying their wisdom in every step, in every choice, in every moment.
"The wisdom of the ancestors flows through us, for we are both the seeds and the roots of all that has come before."
In order to truly step into our power, we must heal and recognize what needs balance within. Ladies of the Light and Guardians of the Light, we are beyond honored to serve our community through Rites of Passage (ROP) and other healing modalities. As we move through grieving and embrace the peace that comes with releasing what has been lost, we lean in to heal. In this process, we clear the path for all that is meant for us to manifest.
This is the time to claim our power, to step fully into our highest purpose, and to live as leaders, healers, and creators. In doing so, we not only honor our own journey but uplift the collective, recognizing that as we rise, so too does everyone around us. The royal crown is not an ornament, but a recognition of our deepest truth: we are worthy, we are sovereign, and we are here to lead with love, wisdom, and unwavering courage.
The throne is ours. It is time to embrace our reign, to heal, to find balance, and to fully embody the power that has always been ours.
BLESSING FOR 2025:
EMPOWERMENT PRAYER FOR THE YEAR
By Divinely Sah’RAh
May you step into 2025 with the quiet strength of the earth beneath your feet, the grace of the winds that carry you forward, and the clarity of the stars that light your path. May your light shine so brightly that all that no longer nourishes your spirit is gently swept away, leaving only what supports your highest good.
May the wisdom of the Creator and the spirits of your guides speak to you in whispers and dreams, guiding you through the veil with clarity, so that nothing may hinder your soul’s true journey. Trust the messages that come, for they will carry you toward your purpose, which is written in the heart of the universe.
May your purpose unfold so clearly, so deeply, that doubt is but a fleeting shadow. Let fear and worry dissolve, like mist in the morning sun, for you are held by the ancient rhythms of life, always supported, always loved.
May you give and receive with a heart full of sacred love, so pure and authentic that the energy you send out returns to you, multiplied, as if the very earth is responding to your heart's song.
May your every step be in harmony with the world around you, and may you manifest your desires in alignment with the flow of the cosmos. Walk in balance, knowing that every breath, every moment, is guided by the loving Ancestors of Light who walk with you.
Asè. Aho. AMEEN. I AM.
PRACTITIONER SPOTLIGHT:
Founding Mother, Sah’RAh Ma’at Bey
Our first Practitioner Spotlight for 2025, begins with our Founding Mother, Divinely Sah’Rah—also known as Sah'Rah Ma'at Bey. Sistar Sah’Rah is a Spirit Doula, Medicine Woman, and Soul Purpose Guide. Rooted in her Aboriginal Indigenous heritage, she honors sacred ancestral traditions and ceremonies to facilitate spiritual growth and remembrance. As a visionary, Sah'Rah empowers purpose-driven women through Ladies of the Light, guiding them to reconnect with their divine essence, embrace their unique roles, and find unity in community. Her mission is to help every woman realize her true purpose and shine her light in the world.
Seek guidance with her through Akashic Records Readings, Ancestral Healing, Rite of Passage, and so much more. To book a 1-on-1 or group session and to learn more, please visit:
LOOKING AHEAD:
LADIES OF THE LIGHT 2025 CALENDAR
Guardians of the Light ROP for Men:
Duration: Wed. Jan.15th - Wed. April 2nd (Every Wed.)
Time: 7:30PM PST/ 9:30PM CST/10:30PM EST
Reiki Training:
Date: Sun. Feb. 2nd
Time: 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Women of Many Nations Rite of Passage: Duration: Tues. Feb. 25th - Tues. April 8th
Ladies of Light (LOL) Rite of Passage:
Duration: Mon. May 5th - Mon. July 28th
Ladies of Light (LOL) Crowning Ceremony:
Duration: Thurs. Aug. 14th - Mon. Aug. 18th
Women of Many Nations Celebration:
Retreat: Fri. Oct. 10th - Sun. Oct. 12th
LOL Practitioners: Thurs. Oct. 9th - Mon. Oct. 13th
Black Lace + Pearls Grief Ball:
Date: Sat. Nov. 1st (Save the Date—turning grief on its head to celebrate those who have come before us)
Holiday Reflection & Renewal Dinner:
Date: Fri. Dec. 5th (Save the Date—a gathering for those grieving during the holiday season)
FLOWERS OF PEACE
FOR BROTHER VALANTÉ
Brother Wendell Valanté Coxeff was laid to rest last week, after passing peacefully in his sleep on Tuesday, December 10, 2024. As a Portland native, he was proud of his deep community roots. Valanté held a beautiful spirit of commitment and compassion as a man of service. As a family man, he loved his kids and was proud of his family and to be married to his wife. He loved traveling out of the country, taking roadtrips, cheering at youth football games, and bike riding all around town with his daughter Athena, who he called Princess. We, at Ladies of the Light, send our deepest, most sincere condolences to Sistar Nneka and all of their children. We are blessed to have been graced by his presence and to know him.
To read his obituary posted on the Portland Observer website, visit Wendell Valanté Coxeff.
GRIEF SUPPORT & GUIDANCE
HOLDING SPACE IN TIMES OF MOURNING
Reflection by Nneka Denise
As the Grief & Transition Practitioner within the Ladies of the Light Community, not only do I hold space by walking alongside those experiencing the range of grief, transition, and transformation, I also share how I move through my own journey. Last month, just two weeks before the holidays (Christmas, Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, etc.,) that are supposed to bring so much joy, my family received a devastating blow. My sweet husband, Little Miss Athena’s father, transitioned to the other side and stepped fully into his role as an Ancestor we may now turn to, call upon, remember, and embody. A legacy worthy of celebration and that we did. His home-going/Celebration of Life was absolutely beautiful and everything he deserved.
It was unexpected and completely heartbreaking; however, it was imperative to me as a mother, a wife, and a community wellness advocate, to continue my calling to be of support to others. In all my grief work, throughout the last two decades, I realized that the only way I was going to be able to move through this one was to lean into my own mourning and grief, and allow it to show up however it may. And that I did. I cried like I have NEVER cried before—openly, honestly, wholeheartedly. My baby boys (24, 18, and 15) have NEVER seen their momma sobbing until last month and it didn’t stop for two full weeks.
While still showing up for others throughout planning his service, all the paperwork, and everything that had to be done, I found it within me to still honor my grief process. I even found the courage to continue my efforts with the 1st Wednesday’s Sacred Grief Circle. Leading with a transparent heart, empathy, and vulnerability is the only way I choose to move through life and this work. It’s a bittersweet dance and I’m honored to have been chosen for such a powerful and much needed calling.
If you are experiencing grief caused by a recent loss, approaching “death” anniversary, or due to the holidays bringing up all the memories and whatnot, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Join the wRITE to Heal Circle on the platform and let’s walk out the process of grief together. Register for the 1st Wednesday “Restoring Our Heart: Sacred Grief Circle” here: https://CeremonialGriefCircle.eventbrite.com.
Be encouraged to lean into the journey, because the only way to heal is to feel your way through it.
JANUARY HEALING EVENTS:
Wednesday, the 1st-4th—Journey of the 12 Sacred Nights (Dec 24-Jan 4th), a sacred ceremony that invites you along a transformative journey of reflection, renewal, and alignment. As Winter deepens and the veil thins, connect with angelic wisdom, pause in stillness, and receive divine insights to guide your year ahead with purpose and love. Join the daily calls by registering on the platform or email ladiesofthelight9@gmail.com to inquire.
Wednesday, the 1st & every 1st Wednesday—Restoring Our Heart: Sacred Grief Circle by Nneka Denise. This is a time for collective mourning as we celebrate our loved ones who have transitioned and honor where we are at along the life-after-loss journey. Every 1st Wednesday. Registration required:
Monday, the 6th & Every 1st Monday—Ladies of the Light monthly Q&A for interested parties to learn more about the community, how to get involved, and ways to register and sign up for membership. This is also a great time for new members to ask any questions regarding navigating the platform as well. Please select your membership level on the platform and request the zoom link by emailing: ladiesofthelight9@gmail.com.
Saturday, the 11th—Inner-Vision Board Journal workshop by Samone Marie at the New Wellness Center, featuring guest practitioners: Graciela “Mama G” Teofield & Nneka Denise. For more information and to register, visit:
Saturday, the 11th-31st—21-Day Clean Eating & Detox of the Mind, Body, and Soul guidance with Nneka Denise within the wRITE to Heal Circle, email Hello@wRITEtoHealPDX.org for more info.
Tuesday, the 14th & 28th—LOL bi-weekly ceremonies for LOL practitioners and initiates who have gone through the Rites of Passage. For more information on how to join Ladies of the Light, please email ladiesofthelight9@gmail.com.
Wednesday, the 15th—Guardians of the Light ROP for men begins; weekly meetings will take place on zoom every Wednesday through April 2nd. To register, join the Guardians of the Light circle on the platform and email guardiansofthelight9@gmail.com.
Saturday, the 18th—online Sacred Grief Circle by Nneka Denise. Just like the in-person 1st Wednesday circle, every 3rd Saturday we’ll hold the Restoring Our Heart: Sacred Grief Circle online. For more information, email: Hello@wRITEtoHealPDX.org.
Saturday, the 18th—wRITE to Heal Workshop by Nneka Denise, offering healing guidance through sacred penning. Utilizing transformative prompts for automatic writing, journaling, meditation, visualization, and voice exercises, as well as somatic movement, EFT, energy healing, and intuitive guidance, this journey facilitates deep emotional release to promote self-discovery and a deeper connection with your Higher Self. Gain inner clarity, heal past wounds, and align your mind, body, and spirit with your highest potential. For more information, email Hello@wRITEtoHealPDX.org.
Tuesday, the 28th—Ladies & Guardians of the Light “The Givers” Collective Call as we embrace the divine feminine and divine masculine together, while continuing to manifest throughout 2025. This monthly call is an extension to our 12 Sacred Nights journey and for members within the Ladies of the Light & Guardians of the Light Circles. If you haven’t signed up for your membership, please do so on the platform and to inquire about the call, email:
Mama G’s Events at the New Wellness Center:
To register for one or all, visit the following link: https://www.gracielateofield.com/events
Friday, the 17th—Sacred Drum Circle; Needing space and time to let go of your week with a small cadre of like-minded souls? Join us for this experience of rhythms, sound, and energy of the drum.
Saturday, the 18th—Vibrational Sound Bath. sound medicine is offered in a group setting and offers deep relaxation, release and restoration. This evening of soothing sounds is a perfect offering to a long week.
Sunday, the 19th—Story Time. Enjoy family style community fun, as the world of language, culture, fun songs, music, movement activities and play are shared along with my favorite children's books which encourage the early love of literature.
Monday, the 20th—Reiki Share. Both the beginner and the experienced practitioners are welcome to come, hold space, give and receive this beautiful energy in our safe environment. Please bring your journal/pen, and anything you need to feel comfortable.
Friday, the 31st—Silent Tea Ceremony. Quiet the week's noise with a small gathering of likeminded souls to share a cup of silence with Gaia's high-quality tea.
CLOSING REMARKS:
2025 is a new beginning, remember to take it all in stride and to give yourself grace. Continue to rest and refuel, listening to your body for the nourishing essentials for growth and deep connection. Finding your power, utilizing your voice, and standing in all the essence that makes you, YOU, is a courageous act. Lean in and be bold! Out with the old (that which no longer serves your highest good) and in with the new (all that grounds you, invigorates you, and uplifts you). Together, we will and together we are!
Accept what is; let go of what was; and have faith in what will be.
Love & Light,
Nneka Denise—LOL editor, guide, and Madrina
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What a beautifully written Newsletter Sistar Nneka. I can tell it truly came from the heart. Thank you!💫🫶🏽🙏🏾💫